AKSHARA

Akshara is my dream. She is a dream of few others too... with a different name and maybe a different gender. For me it is my friend's unborn baby. Being a women is a wonderful feeling and carrying a baby for months is an awesome blessing. I find my friend blessed.

Now talking about Akshara, she visits my thoughts and dreams often. She is going to be my kid's elder sister, my first experience of being a mother like. I believe babies make life a million worth. They are God sent angels to complete our very own existence. Is is a feeling divine and will find ourselves closer to heaven. It is a wait with excitement and suspense. It is a fairy tale that comes true in a matter of time.

For many young generation couples, having babies is an option thought, planned and finally an executed task. Many have their own justifications and perspectives. With due respect, could i raise one simple question,
IS LOVE AN OPTION THAT IS THOUGHT, PLANNED AND EXECUTED LIKE A TASK?
Rest I leave it to you.

I would like to narrate a story known or maybe unknown.

A young boy was in love with a pretty girl. They made love to each other and the pretty girl became pregnant. Ooops! Abortion? Well, that was not the choice they made. They got married and raised the baby under difficult situations and harsh realities. Loving was difficult when hardships struck every now and then. The lovely angel grew up to know her parents' story and felt guilty about being born and having killed her parent's young dreams and ambitions.
She one day spoke to both her parents and apologised that she ever happened to them and at the wrong time, but her dad hugged her and told this,
"THAT WAS THE NIGHT I SAW YOUR MOTHER AND FELT THAT SHE WAS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN I HAVE EVER KNOWN. THAT WAS THE DAY I EXPRESSED ALL MY LOVE FOR HER. AND YOU ARE THE EXPRESSION OF OUR MOST IMPORTANT DAY. AND YOU ARE THE MOST PRECIOUS GIFT YOUR MOTHER GAVE ME."

Friends, abortion is option... will forever stay...
but, what would have been the case if your parents took this choice or decided to delay this expression of love?

Doctors told that I will never happen.... but here I am. I am sure they loved each other the most that day when I was happening. Lets not deny or delay the coming of angels and make our life a fairy tale which has ups and downs but definitely blessed. It is a wonderful feeling.

THIS IS HOW MY AMMA FEELS..... THIS IS HOW YOUR MOM FEELS... DO YOU DOUBT IT...? GO FIND OUT.

this is not just for women... but men too... A women should never say I AM PREGNANT, INSTEAD SHE SHOULD SAY WE ARE PREGNANT.

-ANNA

WOMEN - EPISODE -2

With Jerry it has been an eventful life. She knows how to make it interesting. She always tells me, “baby we are a balanced couple, we romance at the right time and when it gets boring we fight it out to love each other more.” Very true. She is one of the most ‘sensible females ‘I have ever met. But still she is a ‘female’; that smaller part of the previously mentioned label makes her think, speak and behave ‘Non sense’ sometimes.

I have been talking all negative about women till now. But today being the second day of this very New Year I would like to be honest to you. Women are not that bad too, as I have been portraying them. Frankly I have learnt a lot from them. How and what?

For that I will start with Jerry. She is a self motivated and a highly determined girl. She never gives up on anything which she has started and she wants to complete. Her determination is so strong that solutions come finding her. I have an incident to mention here. This happened when Jerry and I were just good friends.  Jerry joined one of the personality development workshops in which I was a volunteer. My intentions were mean. I wanted to increase the number of participants when I asked her to join. She did it for me, just the faith in my words. There she was a part of a group, who were given a task to make money without any revenue in their hand. Believe me at the end of the task which lasted around 4 hours this group had 800 bucks with them. Jerry carried this group to glory. She inspired the rest with her determination and hard work. They got a few roses from a shop and requested the shopkeeper that they would pay him in sometime. She sold these roses to the rich people around for five times the actual cost. And the rest continued this. Here she was a leader. She inspired and guided the rest without any personal intentions. That’s selflessness. Today by taking an example out of her I do the same and I realize life gets better following her.

It doesn’t get over here. At all the steps I have fumbled she was there to support me and inspire me. For a man it’s his good lady who understands him completely and for me it’s my Jerry. A life without her would be a disaster.

Ms X my senior at office; though very mean, is an interesting person. She is full of energy. She is a kind of person who can get double the output from a person he/she can deliver. Even the laziest of lasses in office who under her, work really hard. Forget about the men under her. They just have horror tales to narrate about their office. I always wonder how she does that. Still no clues about it. I wish if I could do the same with Ms Y and Ms Z.

Who doesn’t have stories to tell about his mom? I call her mummy. Mummy has always been besides me like a friend, to correct me, to listen to all what I said, to inspire me, to dress me up, to make me climb up in life and to what I’m today it is all her hard work. If I’m writing today, it’s because of her. She was my first source of encouragement.[Jerry surely helped me in restarting the long lost hobby]. She is one who can do anything for me and my happiness. It is so unconditional. I always think where she gets all this energy from. I cannot imagine pumping out so much of energy unconditionally. She can fight with the whole world for me. Alone! I have learnt to fight for right from her. I have learnt to love from her. I have learnt to be a human from her. When I’m in pain I just think how much my mother would have suffered giving me birth and then my pain would go off. I guess I’m getting very sentimental. But I think all would have similar stories about their mothers.

So girls thanks for being around because it is you who completes us (guys).

Tom